Being born with fuck you money has afforded me a great deal of agency, which until recently i was using to ruin myself completely (whores, cocaine, alcoholism,not working). If you guys ever get "fuck you money", be sure to not raise a kid on it.
About the fuck you mindset - this sounds like the 'irrational confidence' I've heard about in this space. How do you beat it into yourself while you're at level 101?
You hustle at all costs to get there. You read books like Rich Dad Poor Dad, you listen to old Jim Rohn presentations… you join any group you have to in order to be around high value people/men. You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with. So go find 5 guys that are where you want to be and ask them how to get there yourself.
Become a man of value, AKA a man with frame that most women would love to enter.
Irrational confidence’, otherwise known as ‘fake it to you make it’ is how you can start from zero. It’s a temporary measure to get your mindset into a place where you can actually make it. ‘Fuck you money’ comes later as a result of making it. As you progress and you start racking up tangible achievements the confidence gradually becomes real and internalised, and no longer irrational.
> start growing a fuck you mindset
Ultimately, it comes down to having options in your life.
I like the updates on the original post - nice.
Beautiful
Being born with fuck you money has afforded me a great deal of agency, which until recently i was using to ruin myself completely (whores, cocaine, alcoholism,not working). If you guys ever get "fuck you money", be sure to not raise a kid on it.
About the fuck you mindset - this sounds like the 'irrational confidence' I've heard about in this space. How do you beat it into yourself while you're at level 101?
You get the appropriate reference experiences so it's rational and actualized instead of delusional.
Reread the first paragraph.
You hustle at all costs to get there. You read books like Rich Dad Poor Dad, you listen to old Jim Rohn presentations… you join any group you have to in order to be around high value people/men. You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with. So go find 5 guys that are where you want to be and ask them how to get there yourself.
Become a man of value, AKA a man with frame that most women would love to enter.
Once you become that man, you can tell your shitty wife that she isn’t going to treat you like a beta chump anymore, like I did.
In 2017 I was a loser.
By 2022 I had fuck you money AND a fuck you mindset. Was it easy?? Hell no. But it’s simple.
Irrational confidence’, otherwise known as ‘fake it to you make it’ is how you can start from zero. It’s a temporary measure to get your mindset into a place where you can actually make it. ‘Fuck you money’ comes later as a result of making it. As you progress and you start racking up tangible achievements the confidence gradually becomes real and internalised, and no longer irrational.